Showing posts with label stupidity is not a handicap. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stupidity is not a handicap. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 20, 2017

Brainy Bunch lousy? Betul ke?

Hey yaaa...

Few more days to a brand new year. Nah..no resolution that's bullshit. I don't resolute by end of the year cause my focus is to get my year-end bonus and shopping!😂

Anyway I came across a blog today about a mom who complained about Brainy Bunch. To summarize her story, she sent her son to the center and dissatisfied with many things. As a mother who fully rely on kindergarten/daycare during my working hours, I have something to share about this.

Dear mommy,
As you mentioned in your blog, you wanted your son to be exposed with Islamic teaching since young age so you chose Brainy Bunch. After 4 months, you then think....

1. The school fee is too expensive but your child learn nothing
2.  You found out Brainy Bunch is like makan duit. Suda lagi mahal then a lot of hidden cost.
3. Go school trip also need to pay
4. The school like to cuti. Even public holiday also the school cuti
5. Extra ko-k such as Bengkel solat also need to pay
6. School held party, why ask parents bring food? No need money ke buy food?
7. School concert also need to pay for the kid's costume
8. 4 months at the school, doa makan pun tak abis

I did not send my kid to Brainy Bunch so it is not fair for me to evaluate them based on other's judgement and I do not want to judge others and I believe every parents may have different expectations. However, there are few things I think all parents need to bear in mind before enrolling their children to playschool/kindergarten especially those well-known with "pricey".

1. The school fee is too expensive but your child learn nothing.   
Yes, it is expensive but dear mommy, your son don't learn overnight. 4 months is too early to  comment about a child's progress. You maybe expecting your child to recite a-lif-ba-ta on his first    week so that it worth every penny you spent, but don't you forget he is learning to socialize and be    independent when away from you. That's also a development progress and wouldn't you think    your son and his teachers deserved an applause for both their efforts? (you don't give I give, nahhhhh) 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

2.  You then found out Brainy Bunch is like makan duit. Suda lagi mahal then a lot of hidden cost.    
 I won't deny this. No, I am not saying Brainy Bunch makan duit but it is common for most of the     well known & expensive kindergarten to have extra activities that need parents to fork out     extra money. Honestly if you are not ready for this, you will be unnecessary stressed up so better     opt for another schools. To all new parents out there, be prepared as there will definitely extra cost     that some kindergarten may not mention earlier. I don't call it hidden cost la, they are more like     optional activities cost. I don't think the center would force you to join if you don't think it is     necessary for your child.

3. Go school trip also need to pay       
Amoi, you go holiday also need to spend money right?

4. The school like to cuti. Even public holiday also the school cuti    
Teachers also employee just like you, takkan you boleh cuti on public holidays but not    the teachers kan. Teachers also need a break mah come on.

5. Extra ko-k such as Bengkel solat also need to pay    
I am pretty sure they won't force if you not keen.

6. School held party, why ask parents bring food? No need money ke buy those food?   
 Again, not sure bout Brainy Bunch but as I know ini they suggest parents to provide but tak paksa    pun. Btw, anak you makan food yg mak org provide juga kan? hehe 

7. School concert also need to pay for the kid's costume    
Once a year saja sayang, can't we see this as a sweet memory as the amount you pay not just for    the costume but food and concert CD for parents to keep.

8. 4 months at the school, doa makan pun tak abis
Anak I 1 year in Chinese school, baru pandai 5 ayat chinese. 😝

Oh I know I may sound against this mommy but please I am just sharing if you choose to enroll your child in those famous and expensive kindergarten/playschool, be prepared with the extra cost and please don't value the amount you pay with how much your child would learn. Called me a fussy mom but I have been visiting many (too many frankly) kindergarten/childcare before deciding to enroll my child to one. Maybe not the best to others, but it matches all the requirements my child needed for his development.

Lesson of the day: Do your own research and visit those center, ask questions to avoid misinterpretation. What matches your child's needs are what you should put your concern to, not glamorous and expensive fee. OK, Bye!🙈

Friday, November 7, 2014

Does a bitch really taste that good?

Gloomy day, received a call from someone I knew for long today. From far I could sensed she is in trouble. Yet I didn't want to make such conclusion too fast, I maybe wrong. But true enough,  a painful cry from the other end, hoping for a helping hand. I guess I am a good mind reader.

To my dear friend, I am sorry for what you have been through. Maybe you are right, no man is a right man, no marriage is perfect with just romance. It required more than just sex and love.

To all men in the world, open your heart, listen to this voice, it came deep down from your humble wives.

Could there still be a delicate soul hiding behind the facade of a man who gone wild and wrong? What is the real face beneath the mask of defiance that you dons?

At the moment you enjoy hugging another woman tight to your chest, you wife is stuck home with the kids worrying if you have had your meals or will you safely home. At that very moment when she calls you she actually already know something is not right but she choose to trust you. When you reaches home, she shows no qualms but a smile, yet you never appreciate.

Dear men, when a woman has decided to leave their family to be with you, they have actually gave up most of the good things they used to have in life.  Your wife harbours a down to earth dream of settling down with the right person. Yes define them the way you think it is, you maybe capable to give her a better life in your own definition but better life is not by getting her more branded bags or taking her to a luxury dinner. A good wife do not want all that from you. It's the honesty and trust that what they long for.

No woman is blind enough to ignore a blatant lie. At that very moment you open up for another woman, that is the beginning of a betrayal. The time you basks in your risque actions, holding other woman's hand without guilty, you have actually made a choice to made it tough. Your wife is paying high price for a strong person she could. The curve on her face is made for you, with yearnings for sure.

Dear friend, I tell you to let go and forgive. Take it as lesson and again, it's a choice you can make. Listen to your heart. The little ones you are bearing now is the reason you are here today. Stay strong, have faith my dear friend. 







Monday, June 18, 2012

A kind Monday..:)

Today somebody asked me... 
Kepoci: Jesse, why u spend so much money on insurance?
Me: Cause if anything happen to me, I don't need to worry lo...
Kepoci: Chewww! U sure kena con ody laa! Why u wanna worry so much?
Me: Cause if suddenly I am diagnosed with cancer, my husband don't need to worry lo..
Kepoci: Walao! How u know u will get cancer oo?! Why u wanna have such burden lei?
Me: Cause if suddenly I gt hit by car, my family don't need to worry lo..
Kepoci: Choii! If u really gt hit by car ahh, u already die lo! How u wanna feel the insurance money then? No use wasting money buy insurance one....
Me: Cause if I die, I and all my loves one don't need to worry Aunty..:)

If u get what I mean la aunty, nobody buy insurance for themselves, it is all for the betterment of their loves one and never called it a waste! :)

Friday, March 16, 2012

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Namewee Fuck Lynas - good day to die 美好的一天 黃明志


You know what make me like this song even more? When he mentioned "Dusun" in the song cause most people know Kadazan but not Dusun. Double thumbs up, Namewee! Muaxx Muaxx~

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Modern guy: Badmouth too?

Oh this is bad..so so bad...

Have you ever encounter men (actually just one, so it should be "man" huh?LOL) that is bullshitting a lot? Yeah I mean like A-L-O-T. I never encountered any until I joined this particular company. That man really gossip like a bitch. OMG! This type of bullshit is bullshit something that is ridiculous. Unbelievably described about how bad is one, but why do the hell he need to do this shit to other women? Shall we call you "bitchaassssssssss" starting from now, dear gossip king? Guess there might be extra feminine gene in you. Extra Progesterone? Daa~~   

Definitely I am not alone. Some of the staff do think he might be a queer (as if I care, I just beh tahan). But I don't think it has much to do with soft guy, but more of being disrespectful.  Real men don't bullshit. Show a little respect la. Yeah I know he did badmouthing others a lot (and everybody know it!). Every time it happens that I saw it, it gives me this funny thought as "At least he noticed you, people." LOL And really some people do not need a reason to the things they do or said. Feel sorry to their foolishness AND their mad immaturity.



A real man has better things to do than to mess with other's life. Real man know their value and that's why women want them. Sorry men, I need to agree new millennium men say that women gossip too much but they gossip twice as much. Scary!
ARRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Monday, October 17, 2011

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Anjing tidak haram.

When I browsed through a blog today, I found a very good post to be shared with others.

http://beautifulnara.com/pendapat-seorang-pembaca-tentang-komen-di-entri-nanu-dan-anjing/#more-11956

and if you have extra time, you can read the comments from readers as well. Actually this post is related to the previous post where one Malaysian artist having a puppy as pet and the feedbacks from the readers were just here and there..All nonsense words were threw up too.

Check out the link below.

http://beautifulnara.com/gambar-nanu-baharuddin-dan-anak-anjing-yang-comel/

and read the dunoe-what-what comments. LOL

Sunday, April 10, 2011

2 year old baby smokes 40 cigarettes-a-day?!


I know this wasn't new anymore, but it was still sad to see this little boy was trained to be a smoker. Look at him, OMG! He is totally don't understand what's going on to him..Even worse when his dad think he sees nothing wrong for him to smoke! What father are you??? GOSHHHHHH!!!!

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

"Harsh"

I want to share this great story, hoping that it somehow will open one's mind of how harsh they are to their loves one. I wonder why we can be nice to a stranger but be harsh to our own family members or partner or the children? Some might think they just wanting to be firm to their loves one, but there is a vast difference between being harsh and being firm. Being too harsh will only destroy one’s dignity. Make one feel reluctant to share anything with you. After sometimes it may sounds boring to them since they always get turn down. Thus, leads to deadening effects.A lot of people choose to set up so many rules, so many NO NO NO, ain't you think you are actually setting up harsh and unkind rules against yourself and also your loves one? No one is born without faults. We all live with mistakes, we all learn from the mistakes, and that is the way we survive. Remember, a round egg can be made square according to how you cut it, words would be harsh according to how you speak them. Well I am here not to censure anyone, cause I know I am one of them. I admitted that and I learn not to be harsh, to anyone. So, don't be harsh people, cause it hurts.


I ran into a stranger as he passed by.
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.

But at home a different story is told,
how we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
my son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use,
but the children you love, you seem to abuse.
Go look on the kitchen floor,
you'll find some flowers there by the door."
"Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself; pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
and you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."
By this time, I felt very small,
and now my tears began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em out by the tree."
"I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway.
I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

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