LOVE vs LIFE...

Another 4 days is exactly 2 months I had long distance relationship with my love one..nothing much i can say but just feels like time goes as fast as flash....Lately I think life is much enjoyable each day when we have the courage to work hard for living...especially when you finally found a job that suit you well...So i cherish every moment I had now & try to be as happy as I could...There are things in our life that don’t go the way we want them to or the way we think they should, but we can’t dwell on these because we’ll missout on some other opportunities…Sometimes we tend to give up just because we don’t think things will work…well you won’t know unless you give it a try right..?

I’ve learned that things change, people change, and it doesn’t mean we forget the past or try to cover it up…it simply means that we move on and treasure the memories…I understand there is time when we feel like hard to accept new changes in our life but I did learnt that the more we try to keep things the same as we used to...the more tougher it can be…plus you never learn new things & letting yourself hiding at your own cubical..Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, it means accepting that some things weren’t meant to be anymore…

They are people that tend to change their partners or situations…Bear in mind that we can’t change the world but we have the capabilities to change ourselves…We can choose to change our perceptions of a person or situation..accept it as it is…be positive & stop judging others…Pushing a person to change only will change you in the end…why not learn to love, accept & discover slowly...

For me, a relationship should make you feel complete in every way…It’s like a jig-saw puzzle, there are pieces that you could make fit in a certain spot, but there’s only one that truly fits…I can say love is the greatest feeling we will ever have, as what a friend told me last night...Remember that not much people has chance to love & to be loved...so appreciate the moment...I agreed with him...but yet it is also one of the greatest sorrows that would let you walk in the dark…There is so much suffering, but then there are times when the tears,pain,heartache is worth to be gone through…Of course beginnings are usually scary, endings are usually sad..but the middle is what really counts!That’s the reason why I stayed with my love…Duration of a relationship is not important..what most important is how much efforts you may put in it or how much thing you have done to your partner within that period...how long a couple being together is just a symbol of digit...it means nothing without great efforts & cares...

I always think that love doesn’t mean everything…love without efforts for better life mean nothing…love only itself will never make u live to the fullest…with great efforts to make life better is a great point to make love complete in its own way…just like when u want your partner to company u all the time…remember that company doesn’t mean security…to be by your side 24/7 cannot proof his sincerity anyway and that time then you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises…

Well, I’ve learned that life is like hour glass sand…Sooner or later, everything hits rock bottom…but all we have to do is be patient and wait for something to turn everything back around…!

God bless!

Love Kollo~